"You Should” … But Should You? Reclaiming Your Inner Badass and Intuition
Let’s be real: how many times have you heard someone say, “You should…” and immediately felt your brain hit the snooze button? If you’re anything like me, the moment those two little words come out, I’m already mentally checking out. It’s not that I don’t appreciate advice—really, I do—but I’ve got enough voices in my head already without adding someone else’s unsolicited opinion to the mix.
In a world where everyone and their grandmother has an opinion on how you should live your life, run your business, or even style your hair (thanks, Aunt Judy, but I like my bangs just fine), it’s no wonder we’ve lost touch with our own inner voice. You know, the one that actually knows what’s best for us.
The Problem with “You Should”
When someone tells you what you “should” do, they’re not necessarily wrong—they’re just not necessarily right, either. Their advice is often a reflection of their own life experiences, preferences, and, let’s be honest, sometimes their own insecurities. But here’s the thing: you’re not them. You’ve got your own badass journey to walk, and it’s time to start trusting that you’re the one who knows the way.
Too many cooks in the kitchen of your mind will only serve up a recipe for confusion, self-doubt, and possibly a serious case of heartburn. So, how do you kick out the unwanted chefs and get back to your God-given intuition, the one that’s been quietly waiting for you to tune back in?
Getting Your Groove Back: Reconnecting with Your Intuition
Here’s how to dial down the noise and reconnect with the one person who really knows what’s up—you!
1. Embrace the Power of Silence - I know, I know—who’s got time for silence in a world that never shuts up? But trust me, taking a few minutes each day to just sit in silence can do wonders. Whether it’s meditation, prayer, or just zoning out in the bath with a glass of wine, give yourself some quiet time. That’s when your intuition can finally get a word in edgewise.
2. Listen to Your Gut (Literally) - Your body’s got your back, girl. That gut feeling? It’s your intuition waving a giant neon sign. Start paying attention to those physical cues. When something feels off, don’t ignore it. Your gut’s not just good at digesting tacos; it’s got a sixth sense that’s rarely wrong.
3. Write it Out, Sister - Grab a journal and let those thoughts fly. There’s something about putting pen to paper that helps you tap into your inner wisdom. Write down your dreams, your fears, your random thoughts about why dogs are better than cats—whatever comes to mind. You might be surprised at the clarity that comes from just letting it all out.
4. Curate Your Influences - Think of yourself as the DJ of your own life. Who are you letting spin the records in your mind? Be selective about whose advice you take to heart. Before you go seeking input from everyone and their dog, ask yourself what *you* think. And maybe, just maybe, cut back on the social media scroll—there are only so many TikTok dance challenges a girl can handle.
5. Pray Like the Queen You Are - If prayer is your jam, use it to tap into some divine guidance. Whether you’re asking for clarity, confidence, or just a sign that you’re on the right path, take a moment to connect with something bigger than yourself. Sometimes the answer isn’t a lightning bolt from the sky—it’s that quiet nudge that says, “You’ve got this.”
Walk Your Own Path—In Heels, If You Want
Here’s the truth: You’ve got the map to your own success right inside you. While the world is busy shouting “you should,” your intuition is whispering “you can.” It’s time to trust yourself, tune out the noise, and take the reins of your own destiny like the fierce, fabulous woman you are.
So the next time someone tries to tell you what you should do, give them a smile, nod politely, and then do whatever the heck you want. Because you’re the only one who truly knows what’s best for you—and you’re doing just fine.
